The hopes and ambitions of Alex, who is currently studying computer engineering at UNCG and of Li (http://www.guardian.co.uk/arts/video/2008/mar/10/li.furong), who is an exceptional violinist practicing at least 5 hours a day in Beijing, are very similar.
Alex wants to be successful, financially secure, help his family, society and
Li also wants to be successful, help her family and
Both Alex and Li’s parents experienced the Cultural Revolution. Alex believes that the CR has helped the Chinese government to learn from their past mistakes. Li is being pressured by her father to be the next great violinist, since his career in the Shanghai Orchestra was put to an end by the CR.
Both youths have aspiration of greatness, devout parents, individual needs and a commitment to hard work.
Education is most important and quite expensive. The entire family must sacrifice in order for the child to succeed. Alex points out that since the majority of Chinese live by the one child motto; it is not unusual for the parents to devote their lives to their one child. This puts a lot of pressure on the child to succeed. Li stated “I do feel under pressure, because my parents’ unfulfilled ambitions rest on me.”
It is interesting that both Alex and Li incorporate the need to help their family, and this makes me wonder if their aspirations and dreams are truly their own, or a reflection of what their parents want for them.
Li plans on becoming an international performer, and once she has reached that goal, she will return to
Both want to make a difference in their country. As Li stated “If I become a performer abroad, I will live there for a while, but in the end I will return to
I hope, for the sake of both families, that Alex and Li succeed.
On a personal note, I witnessed on two different occasions the suicide of two Chinese students at the